Acceptance

Greta's ADEM

Greta’s ADEM

One of the hardest hurdles to cross on our journey through Greta’s ADEM experience is acceptance. I’ve learned how to say and spell Acute Disseminated Encephalomyelits, but learning to accept all it has done to our sweet girl is another matter.

Standardized test scores this year show an average of a 20 point drop from her scores the year before. I thought the doctors were originally a bit crazy or paranoid for wanting to monitor Greta for 5 years after the initial diagnosis. Now I understand why. The brain lesions are shrinking, each MRI is confirming that. No more are forming, for which we are ever grateful! But the fact of the matter is that damage was done.

So now we find ourselves moving past the urgent of getting back Greta’s eyesight in her left eye, to helping her cope with new realities. It isn’t easy. She is fairly resilient. I’m afraid it is her parents that are struggling with how to accept that things will never be exactly as they were before. It is going to require dedication and purpose on our parts to go through this with her, keep track of crazy things and report them to the doctors and keep up on forums with other parents and see how we can encourage each other.

Denying that there hasn’t been any change in Greta’s academics would be wrong. But giving up on her and not pushing her to make an effort would be equally wrong. Acceptance doesn’t mean settling for mediocre. Acceptance means finding the outstanding and excellence where you are!

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