Having just finished a lesson study on Discipleship, I find it interesting that friends of mine are expressing frustration with the burdens they carry – especially at church. Maybe you got asked to serve as a deacon one too many times. Perhaps you got stuck with the (fill in the blank) program that no one else wants.
Take some time to count the cost during this struggle. Deep down we all know that anything worth having is worth sacrificing for. Look at Jesus. For Him the salvation of the human race was worth having, so He sacrificed Himself for it.
Don’t get angry at yourself for struggling. Consider it a time to count the cost. Everybody has the freedom to choose. God doesn’t force. Perhaps serving in some capacity at your local church isn’t a part of God’s plan for your life right now. But count the cost of choosing to follow Jesus – wholeheartedly. Take your time. This is a matter of great consequence. Jesus likened it to taking up a cross. You just have to ask yourself – is it worth it?
Life forever with no more sin, sorrow and pain. The ability to enjoy this Earth that way it was originally created to be enjoyed – forever! Is that worth a few struggles and hiccups over the course of a few years now? Forever. A few years now. Go ahead, count the cost.
There are days as a parent when you just need to hand it off to your spouse. You give them that look that says, you take over or this child will end up grounded for three years. Greta does more than any of the other children to cause us to keep passing the baton back and forth. But what if there is no one to pass the baton to?
I know some recent single parents with young children. They have a lot going on. Suddenly they are responsible for everything to a much greater magnitude than ever before. They also desperately need that “Tag, you’re it” moment to pass the baton to someone else for a little while.
Single parents work hard and sacrifice a lot. If you know a single parent, especially of younger children, why don’t you find out if you can provide one of those moments where they can pass the baton to you for a few minutes? Offer to take their kids to the park for an hour. Find out their favorite treat and take them to get it. Find out what their parent is really struggling with right now, and find a way to reinforce and support the parent to those children during your outing.
By the way, it doesn’t matter why they are a single parent. Death, divorce, never married; it just doesn’t matter. Those kids till need mentoring and that parent still needs a moment to tag someone else to take over for a while.